They are so different… They are like black and white, like summer and winter, like ice and fire, like nice sunny spring day and cloudy, rainy autumn evening… So different but still so similar… They are like South and North Poles. So alike but still so special… She is smart, not for her years, young lady with stable point of view on every question. She has her thoughts and beliefs about everything, and not going to change anything. She is active, alive and full of energy. He is a guy with teenage view on life, no stable thoughts or opinions upon life or serious judgment about it… Stable and firm, solicitous and loves to create problems where there are no intentions of being such.
But one day they met… and that was something that came from the above. People say that differences attrackt to each other, and that was the classical case of it. They were like two rain drops on the window glass on the rainy day: they started their ways from different corners, but to the middle of the glass they met and continued their way as one big drop. And then, at some point, they spread and went individually. However, the destiny is very tricky thing and was keep pushing them to each other, and they couldn’t obey that.
They both think that they can’t be together, because that is just too difficult and they will complicate lives of each other and on, and on, and on… continuing to the eternity.
But both should remember that : “the happiness comes in many forms and ways: in a company of good friends, in a feeling you get when you make someone else’s dream come true or in the promise of hope denude. It’s OK to let yourself be happy, because you never know how lippy that happiness might be.”
You should remember that…
8 Comments
April 8, 2008 at 7:45 am
…they would be able to save their happiness only if they were brave enough and a little bit crazy.
April 10, 2008 at 3:20 pm
Sometimes all this is way to difficult, so there are no simple answers for tough questions. Sometimes, on the other hand, it’s vise versa: the question is more than tough but the answer is more than easy. It all depends.
I think these two have their own reasons for doing all that things that they are doing. And everyone, first of all, should respect those reasons even without knowing them.
That’s the problem: we tend to undervalue some factors when we are just “spectators” but we are enormously overvalue some factors when we are the players of the game.
So in this case I know one thing exactly: they both will be okay. Time will do most of the job for them… in any case.
April 15, 2008 at 1:44 pm
Time will do everything possible, but some stuff even time can’t heal…
April 17, 2008 at 5:49 pm
Time has two most powerful resources in universe. These are eternity and infinity. So it can heal everything, not everything possible
And in 5 years (even without those 2 aces) you will perceive previous”everything” differently. I’m 100% sure even if you think “no way” now
April 22, 2008 at 3:08 pm
Dear ma lu,
I think you are way toooo much overconfident, and believe that you know everything in the world; I don’t want to make you feel bad, but, hey, the big news– you DON’T KNOW EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!
Yes, you have more life experience, because you live on the Earth more time than I do, but even such inexperienced person as I am know that there are some things that can’t be cured, because they just can’t be!
I hope you’ll realize that some time…
April 22, 2008 at 3:55 pm
the problem is they are both toooooo stubborn, and both are not going to change anything in their points of view or the behavior. If they did, everything would be easier. Not easy, but easier!
April 22, 2008 at 4:34 pm
Dear ma lu and princessofsnow,
You are both right in some sense! However, it depends on the situation. Sometimes, time can heal, I know, but not totally. But what those two need, is not time, they need action. Do not wait, but do something! And I totaly agree with princessofsnow that IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO KNOW EVERYTHING! NOONE CAN KNOW EVERYTHING! that is true..
April 22, 2008 at 8:40 pm
My confidence is illusory. I’m not even half that confident. I’m more of underconfident than anything else (but don’t tell anyone, it’s a secret). And I do not think I know much. Really.
But still time cures
And I agree with “they need action”